Don't be scared because everybody has their breaking point, even judges. What you did was perfectly normal since bio-dad doesn't care about his son. What you should do is find out where he works and report his employer to the court and IRS and wait for the mushroom cloud to rise. It's very hard to prove you're broke when you drive a car, live in an apartment and eat three squares a day. First let him bring up the letter and then counter with his employer's name and address. He won't be able to recover to that fact. The only thing I hope you didn't do is threaten him with serious bodily harm. You might have to claim exigent circumstances on that one and hope the judge has a sense of humor.

The judge doesn't care about your opinion of the father nor the father's opinion of you. You are simply going to court to enforce child support. You should live your life as a single mother taking care of her kid. The most important thing is the child, not you or the father so don't worry about the trouble the father is getting in to. And once you have the child support set up through the state leave at that. It is in the states hands, not yours, so don't depend on his child support payments or expect them. And if you don't receive them, do not say anything to the father.. It's between him and the state on weather he pays or not. As far as your child goes, leave it up to the father to disappoint him. You are simply there to care, comfort and love him in his times of need. Let your child be the one to make form an opinion on the father's actions. I've been there in your shoes and it does no good to fight or argue with the father. Leave it all up to the courts.. then you have a judges name signed to it and any wrong doing will go back on the judge not you!

You had every right to write what you did, and I don't understand why you are aplogizing. What did you do wrong? You told the loser that he was a loser. It's not like you were lying. The judge doesn't care about emotions, he or she cares about the facts.