Let's see, your house, your truck and you're paying everything. Since anything you had before the marriage is not community property, she has no standing to keep you out. Even if she had a restraining order, you can double back and evict her. However, that does not bode well with judges. So until she gets a restraining order, which by the way you can fight, there is nothing she can do. I certainly hope you're not expecting her to make the mortgage and truck payments for you because chances are they aren't. I'd also get her to sign an agreement or a document that acknowledges that the the seventeen hundred is child support of the courts may have a field day making you start from day one. They can always say the money was a gift (I'm trying to do a worse case scenario). Make sure the kids have health insurance. With what you make, you have a better chance of getting custody except you get sent out of country. Oh and by the way, she has no right to limit your seeing the children nor can she demand she supervises the visit. Tell the wicked witch of the west courts and judges make the rules not her or her lawyer. Don't lay any of this on her while you're downrange. She may get a lawyer and ave a ton of paperwork waiting for you when you clear customs. Never let em know what you're up to until you do it.

Yes as a father and provider you are protected under the same law as she is it is the parenting law which is in the constitution ,so if the courts has not placed any restriction on you seeing your children then you have just as much right as she has.I really feel your pain on this one just keep your cool on this because there are children involved. Good Luck!